Thursday, October 28, 2010

Fall Harvest

Yearly, my family has a tradition of picking fruit around the countryside. We harvest apples, pears, peaches, anything else we can find, and my favorite: grapes. Now these aren't just any grapes...these are concord grapes, wonderful, intoxicating concord grapes. I really don't think anyone can understand what I mean until they walk between two rows of ripe concord grapes, stop, close their eyes, and take in the sweetness. It is beyond words. Somehow, my parents became acquainted with a vineyard owner by Keuka lake. This family would allow us to come and pick grapes for the same price they charged Welch's (around 11 cents a pound). Being the food storers that we were, we would pick hundreds, and probably thousands of pounds yearly.

I have incredibly fond memories of walking through the rows of grapes, dressed in a work jacket too big for me, carefully picking big, beautiful bunches of ripe purple-blue grapes. We weren't just picking, of course. Each year I ate enough to make myself sick. We would pile up each box as high as it could go, somehow get all of the grapes to fit in our two cars, climb onto the back of the car, and ride over to the vineyard owner's barn. He would pull out an old, rickety scale, and he and Dad would carefully weigh each box, tallying up the final bill. While they did this, us kids (me and my little brothers, primarily) would run around in the barn playing "lava" as we climbed on the huge grape-picking tractors.

Then, with the bounty piled up in the cars, we would squeeze in and head home, another wonderful year of grape picking over. The harvest lasted for about a week each year though, and while Mom made grape pie filling and grape juice, we ate as much as we could. I remember bringing some grapes to school for lunch one day. One of the girls in my class asked to try a grape...she took one taste of it, and spit it out. She couldn't believe I actually ate grapes with seeds in them. I couldn't believe she didn't think it was the most splendid thing she had ever tasted. To each his own, I guess.

A few days ago, I realized we hadn't gone grape picking this year yet... and it was late in the year. The family we picked grapes from growing up is changing hands, and the tradition of picking there yearly is coming to an end. In desperation, I called up every u-pick place in the fingerlakes region, and everyone had the same response to my question: "picked clean through!" It looks like there won't be any grape picking this year. Sad day. Luckily, I have enough grape pie filling for the coming year, so we'll survive. Next year, I'm getting on it early. One NY fall without grapes is quite enough.

Monday, September 13, 2010

Maybe I will...

Well, it's been over a year since this blog was created. I was convinced in a moment of weakness to keep a blog in order to keep in touch with friends from out west. It made sense at the time...

Somehow, when you move across the Mississippi, you all of a sudden live light years away from the west of the US. For some reason, when you live Denver or west of that, everything is so connected...it's no big deal to travel to LA, Cannon Beach, the Grand Canyon, etc. But when you live in NY, all of a sudden you are too far to visit. Brian and I have been trying to decide where we want to road trip to next, and we realized sadly that we live just as close (and perhaps closer) to Florida than we do to Denver (one of our favorite places to visit)...sad day. And now I begin to wonder when we will ever get back West. The longer I'm here, the more grounded and settled we become.

Now don't get me wrong. I love it here. I've never felt so at home and comfortable as I do in NY. When I was in High School, I couldn't wait to get out west and discover all of the landscape of the west. And I did. I travelled so much when I lived out there. There is just so much natural diversity, it's incredible. But pretty much as soon as I moved out west, I felt a longing for the quiet rural solitude of the East. There are more people to be sure, but somehow it is more spread out. I missed going to sleep to crickets and frogs. I missed the dew on the grass in the morning and the landscape dotted with silos and barns, running around barefoot, and growing things. I missed the dramatic spectacle of a field of fireflies. I missed the running streams and creeks the most. I'm a country girl at heart, and living in cities out west never took that away from me.

Now that I live in the East, and I am so far away from all of the friends and family that I hold so dear, I'm beginning to see how hard it is to stay in contact. Friends that made life bearable when it was rough, friends that were literally there for me when no one else was. Friends that understood and loved me even though we were so different (Rosa & Stephanie of course), and friends that I wish I met years before I did (Kenny and the Rowes). I feel so far away from the friends I used to talk to every day.

So maybe I will write on this blog. I happen to be on a computer for more time every day than I would ever choose, so why not? Maybe there are a few Western friends that will actually read this. Who knows? At any rate, I feel the need to write, and perhaps connect myself to friends now long lost. Someday I will probably not feel the need to write, but for now I think I need it. After all, it's not like we write for everyone else, or atleast I don't. I write for me.